Monday, November 3, 2014
There is a reason....
| Macamango! I LOVE BEING A MISSIONARY!!! |
There is a reason.....
-that I have a million
bug bites
-I can't flush the
toilet paper in the toilet (I know it sounds weird but it is frustrating)
-I don’t understand Spanish
-I have to take 2-3
showers a day because it is so humid here
-My companion and I
have super different personalities
-I walk 6-8 hours a
day and my feet hurt at the end of the day
-I am a million miles
away from everything that is comfortable to me
-I am learning Spanish
-I have diarrhea
randomly from certain foods- TMI I know but seriously it is a real problem
-I am woken up at 3 in
the morning because my legs itch so badly and I am dying from the heat
-The shower has no
pressure and is hot when it is already 150 degrees here already!
-I look stupid half
the time when I speak
-I am serving in Peru
-I am serving in
Quillabamba
-I am a missionary.
This all seems like I
am complaining. And let me tell you, I am done sugar coating it all. It was a
hard week. I am adjusting to missionary life and with that come so many trials.
But through it all I can’t tell you how amazing it is when I lay in bed at
night and think of what I am able to do, and what a privilege it is to be here
on my mission. It has been all I have ever wanted to do for so long and I am
here. Sometimes like this week I forget my purpose. Yesterday I had my 6th
birthday of my patriarchal blessing. In there it talks about serving my mission
and I pulled it out to read and wow. I am supposed to be here. No matter how
hard. The people need this message. They need what I have. I am a disciple of
Jesus Christ and this brings me so much joy. Salvation is not easy and this is
why sometimes I wonder why it is so hard. But I remind myself this is the time
I can give it all I got. I get to share the one thing closest to my heart and
that is the gospel. It is amazing how much I am learning and I remind myself to
find the blessings each day. I am not a sad person... Haha. If anyone knows me
this is NOT my personality. The Lord blesses me so much and through my
obedience and complete faith in Him, He will help others come to the gospel. I
LOVE BEING A MISSIONARY. I love it. Despite how hard it can be. Before I go, I
have to share a funny experience... So on the other side of heaven there is the
part where Elder Grohberg is walking along a path and the mosquitos and bugs
are eating him alive and he all of a sudden just starts screaming and yelling
while flailing his arms in the air because he was sick of getting bit. Well, I
can testify that I have had THE SAME experience. Literally. We were walking and
I just stopped threw a fit and started scratching my legs, while stomping and
yelling in English- HEAVENLY FATHER WHY DID YOU CREATE BUGS! Haha oh man my
companion was laughing for days, and still reminds me of this moment.
Oh how I love this
work. I really do. Until next week.
Hermana Frame
Flowers we see on our streets. Some of them seriously look fake but they
are all so so so pretty!
my bug bites on my legs.... oh man I had a flip out moment this week.
Even putting on repellent and trying to avoid bugs it’s impossible! I sometimes
am up at night but I have taken Benadryl.... and that helps. Goodness me!
I had to hand wash my
own laundry. Make sure you are always grateful for washing machines! My hands
are SO sore!
|
| It is so beautiful when it rains. And it’s not hot so that is a plus. But this is in our sector. |
I ate chicken heart,
and also chicken lungs this week! I LOVE THE CHICKEN HEART. But the lungs on
the other hand are not so great... They taste like iron, lots of it
|
Este perro es muy feo!
This dog was prego and it is the ugliest thing I have ever seen. They love
these dogs here and I want to puke every time I see them.
|
The river- RIO! It is so beautiful. I forget I am in Peru sometimes till
I see things like this.
It is a river on the way to Macamango
Monday, October 27, 2014
A Stone Rolling Forward not The Stoned Be Rolling
Ha.
You possibly might be wondering why I have such an apostate title. Well I
have an experience to share with thee. While in the act of walking down
the road, knocking upon every domicile in sight, I and my companion Elder
Budding, happened upon a red-eyed(stoned) man stumbling around talking to
nobody in particular. We are to share our message with any soul we should
come upon and with this commandment in mind we commenced chatting with the
craze. We started amicably speaking with him until he saw our name tags
and he got all wide eyed and started yelling about polygamist settlers and the
such. We waited till he calmed down and after about 2 minutes of cursing,
wailing, and nashing of teeth we told him a little bit about the pioneers and
about a musical our stake was putting on called A Stone Rolling Forward which
was about the pioneers. He stared at us for 4 seconds, then burst into
jovial laughter saying that that was a great name for the play! We didn't know
why he thought it was so funny until he said the name back to us: "The
Stoned Be Rolling!" He kept on laughing and walked away and wouldn't
listen to us anymore as we tried to keep the conversation going in order to
baptize the poor chap. So anyways. That was the story behind that.
The play was actually
really good. It was about a missionary about to leave on his mission and
then it goes into some accounts of his family history and how he came to be to
be a missionary. We were actually in it at the end welcoming him into the
MTC! Ha so now I can check "Be in a play" off my bucket
list. We got Marilu to come to it though and one of the branch member's
non-member mom got super interested in the pioneers so we are going to watch 17
Milagros with her this Thursday! The work is rolling forward in many
different ways!
So update on the
investigators!
Marilu- Still going
strong! She's living the Word of Wisdom now and is reading the Book of
Mormon more and more! We also had a baptism and confirmation of an 8 year
old in the branch on Sunday so she was able to come to that!
The baptism was super spiritual, but more and more people kept showing up
throughout the baptism and by the end you could hardly hear cause there were so
many children!! Anyways, she said she felt the spirit so score!!
Erick- What a
bum. He's been avoiding us all week, so not a good sign, but we are going
to nab him one of these days and get him to tell us how his prayers went!
Tim- Bailed out on us on
Wednesday, but says he still wants to listen to us so we are going to try him Thursday
this week!
Finding finding and
more finding! We hopefully will get another investigator after we teach
that lady who was interested in the play.
So I love you all and
remember the power of prayer!!!
ORAN SIEMPRE!
Con Amor,
Elder Frame
“QUILLABAMBA!!!! (kia-bomb-buh)”
| At the Lima Peru Temple with Hermana Jesperson. My companion while at the CCM in Lima! |
| Hermana Hoskins, my new companion! |
As
president Harbertson starts naming new companionships and the areas my heart
starts beating 10x faster than normal. My palms are sweating, I want to cry
because everything is so new and I will be leaving Hermana Jesperson but shout
out with joy all at the same time because of how excited I am because the
journey is really happening. It is alphabetical as he is naming companionships
and I was towards the beginning. As he said my name the world just stopped.
Literally. For what felt like a million years. Slowly time started again... and
he went onto say- Hermana Frame will be serving with Hermana Hoskins in
Quillabamba Peru! All that happened was complete shock and burst of excitement.
I WAS GOING TO THE JUNGLE!!! WHAT??!!!!
Psych!
I planned on cold weather- boots, coats, sweaters, well that will be on hold
for a while.... Bring on the hot-humid air, millions of bugs, machetes, cold
showers, amazing food, and tons of trees. OH MY GOODNESS I can’t even describe
I have been here 5 days and I am amazed each day I look out the window or walk
around. Monkeys swinging in the trees, tons of fruit (mangos, bananas,
mandarins, grapes, coconuts, you name it) and the river right there in the
city. Quillabamba is very comparable in weather to Hawaii and about the size of
Orem-- but a lot more people! There are only 2 jungle areas in our mission and
there are 12 missions so wow I am dying! This city is surrounded by jungle. It
has paved roads, sidewalks, stores, and all sorts of parks, swimming pools,
etc. But I have a part in my sector called Macamango and we can’t go there at
night but this is the intense jungle. Machetes are used, tons of animals and
bugs and it is a long walk that is so hot and we are sweating buckets each time
we go and visit members out there. But I have NEVER been so grateful for shade
in my life!!!!
The drive last Thursday
was so beautiful! But I almost died like 10 times! The driver was insane! And
the roads don’t have side rails and it has been known for people dying all the
time. But the drive from Cusco to Quillabamaba was 6 hours! Crammed in a van
holding my bags- all that I have on my lap, bugs biting my legs, and a brand
new comp by my side. Oh the life of a missionary! I love it.
| I love being a missionary! |
But more than that,
more than being in the amazon rainforest, more than the beautiful nature, more
than how rough it is, I am actually out here now spreading the joy this gospel
brings. Last night I hit a bump in the road. It was one of those moments where
everything was going wrong- we tried finding members- but they have no
addresses- SO FRUSTRATING!! We hadn’t
taught any lessons, it was so hot, the bugs were eating us alive, and we had no
success. Oh and to top things off we found out 2 days in being here we have to
move- SO STRESSFUL! So as of right now my comp and I are homeless in
Quillabamba. Haha kidding! But we did open a new sector so my poor comp is
trying to figure everything out, plus train me, plus find somewhere to live. Oh
man I pray for her every second of the day! Anyways, last night we had no
success- nada- we prayed earlier for what we needed to do and to lead us to who
needed us right then. Well, the answer did not come right away. We said a
prayer around noon and nothing happened till that night. We then just
started trying to contact, meet members, and make phone calls but nothing was
happening. So we went back to the apartment and plopped on the bed and wanted
to give up. No one wanted to listen, we couldn’t find anyone we knew and we
were so so drained. But right as we got back to the apartment I felt like we
just needed to go. Go and get our food and on the way contact people in the
park. so I told my comp and I said the Lord cant bless us if we just give up-
we have to go get our food anyways so let’s just talk to people on the way- we
were so unmotivated but with whatever energy we had left we started walking the
10 blocks to our pensionista- WOW!!! Miracles! We were not only just able to
contact one or two people but whole families! And they were so receptive! Oh
how my love for them increased! I am hoping we get a hold of them this next
week again so we can start teaching. They were so ready. It brings so much joy
to my soul to spread what is near and dear to my heart. The fact that other families
can know they can be together forever.
WOW I LOVE BEING A
MISSIONARY.
Anyways, I have to go!
Have a great week! Thank you all for your support and love!
Friday, October 24, 2014
Hna. Frame
Dear
Parents,
As you
can see in the attached photo, your daughter has arrived safely to the Peru
Cusco Mission! We are thrilled to have her here! She looks great, a bit tired
from the travel, but ready to go! Thank you for allowing us to watch over her
for the next year and a half. She has promised that she will be a missionary we
can trust, and we have now given her that trust. As well, you can trust that we
will do everything that we can to care for her and to help her to become a
successful missionary.
Con Gran Amor,
Presidente y Hermana Harbertson
Monday, October 20, 2014
Luv Makes the World Go Round
Hello
everyone.
So yeah. This week has
been such a blur! I'm getting used to being pretty quiet during lessons
because I try to listen and follow the Spanish really good. My Spanish is
improving! When I do talk I can basically talk with only a few pauses but
I know every word I need! It's a slow process still though and I'm working on
patience. It's bloody hard. Anyways, lemme tell yall about my
investigators that are actually progressing:
Marilu: She is
super prepared. She came from a divorce and Mexico. She is staying
in her cousin’s house which is in the nice part of town so it's a nice change
of atmosphere when we go teach her. She also has a son who is 11 and can
also be baptized. We gave her a church tour on Thursday and
when we talked about when Christ was baptized and the need for her to be
baptized she got all quiet and her eyes started watering. The spirit was
there so strong!! It was amazing! And she agreed to be baptized on
the 8th of November! I'm so excited! I'm doing what my purpose
says!! It feels so good to be helping people save their souls!!!!!!!!
Erick: His whole
family is members. He goes to church every week. He reads the Book
of Mormon. But he won't get baptized. He's a bum. He just
won't get baptized. We have him praying about the baptismal date of November
1st. He will receive an answer as long as he sincerely prays about it but
yeah, he is such a homie! He always gives us the football scores during Sunday school
and we teach him in English so it's a nice change.
Tim: He's 17 and
dating a member in the Spanish branch but he's as white as can be. OK and
also he's actually not technically our investigator yet but we have an
appointment with him to teach him on Wednesday so he will be after
that! He wants to marry the girl but she only wants to be married in the
temple so he's taking the lessons to make her happy. I don't really think
he's that interested but when we're through with him he will be!!
So yeah that's our two
maybe three investigators who are progressing. All the other ones just
like talking to us which is good but isn't a good use of our time.
So tender mercy the
other day. We missed dinner the other night and I memorized where the
three Taco Bells were in our area in Modesto and we were close to one so we had
dinner there!! Beefy 5 layer burritos all around baby!!!! Also, a little
background to the story, we aren't allowed to have caffeine unless it's offered
to us. I really needed me a Baja Blast, so when I was ordering I asked
the cashier lady, "Hey, what's your most popular drink here that you can
offer me?" She said that it was either the Iced Tea or the Baja
Blast, so right after she said Baja Blast I said "Yeah I'll have that
one." She looked at me all weird then handed me a cup. I know
that was probably a little apostate but it had to be done for the good of all
people in Modesto. Without my Baja, I probably wouldn't be able to help
them all be baptized!
| Beefy 5 layer burrito and a Baja Blast! |
Spiritual time.
So I was studying the talk given by Jorg Klebingat in General Conference this morning
and it is amazing. Read it. It got me thinking, would I truly be able to
walk up to the Savior confidently right now or would I shirk and be
ashamed? Would you truly be able to walk up to the Savior confidently and
give him a hug? If not, what would be holding you back? There were
things I know that would be holding me back. It's a good thing we have
the Lord's infinite Atonement because that means we can have the power to be
rid of the guilt of those things and have the strength and power to change and
overcome those aspects of our person 24/7. Use the Lord's Atonement
24/7. It's there to empower, change and cleanse us!
Love you all!
ORAN SIEMPRE!
Con amor,
Elder Frame
| My zone leader. |
Wednesday, October 15, 2014
Lessons Learned in the CCM (MTC)
Oh how I love the CCM.
My setting a part blessing said I would and I definitely do. It is a place of
learning and preparation. It is like the pre-earth life of my mission. At
this point I have about 6 days left here and it makes me so giddy to think I am
almost out but at the same time a whole part of me is saying YOU ARE NOT
READY!!!! I already feel like the Spanish is hard
enough... Haha! I know the Lord will help. He always does! But
I will sure miss this safe haven the CCM has been! Also keep my human beings
that speak English close to me! Oh the field is going to shock me I know it....
Oh I can just picture myself a week from now with my Latina companion having no
idea what I am doing. It’s funny how in life the Lord knows that when my life
starts to get comfortable.... better get ready because he has something to
throw at me!
But today I wanted to
share a few things I have learned this past week and also including the weeks
prior here.
1. Being obedient is
the key to success in my mission but also in my life. I heard once the saying
-selective obedience brings selective blessings- well it is true my friends!
This week my companion and I definitely learned this! We chose to stay up a
little past bedtime, like 30 minutes just chatting about the day... It didn’t
seem like a big deal. Nothing really came of it until literally 5 minutes
before we taught our investigator, I became annoying tired, I couldn’t focus,
and my Spanish (or the little Spanish I had) was not even coming to me! I could
barely even start a conversation. And everything my comp tried saying was super
confusing. Embarrassing!!! Oh man, we learned our lesson. It was Heavenly
Father teaching us a lesson about exact obedience.
2. There is more to
people than what meets the eye. Hermana Gonzales is a 5 foot, short haired,
very controlling woman who knows both English and Spanish which is terrifying
because she knows what you are saying ALL THE TIME! She is the wife of the President
here at the CCM and she is definitely the strictest woman I have ever met. My
1st encounter with her was the 3rd day I was here I was eating dinner having a
good time with the Hermanas and I was being myself (which if you know me I can
get loud when I talk and my laugh is definitely not any quieter), but while we
were eating she came specifically to our table pointed to me and said -sister-
(not even Hermana) you need to quiet down in the most tight and intimidating
tone ever. And then she does this motion with her hands showing me to quiet
down, and believe me the first two weeks she had to use it ALL the time. But
folds, I am here to tell you miracles happen. Through much prayer, help from my
companion and constant reminders I have learned how to express myself without
projecting. I am learning!!!! Yay! But the lesson learned came from 2 nights
ago we were able to sit by both her and her husband (president) and we talked
with them about the CCM and while this was happening she turned to me and asked
if I would remember her by her hand motion and if it worked... Ha-ha I was
caught off guard but the conversation was light and I was not even paranoid! We
laughed and joked about how she helped
me overcome this TRIAL and now every time I catch myself being loud I will picture
her hand motion. It was a good learning lesson because she told me she was the
same at my age... and that over time I can succeed. Ha-ha! I HAVE HOPE!!! But
also it taught me that the first impression of people is not always how they
are. Oh and also listen to those with experience in life, they do understand
and know quite a lot.
3. The Lord is my gardner.
If you have watched the Mormon message of how the Lord cuts us down and prunes
us because he knows we will grow. He gives us trials in order for us to grow
spiritually. I was complaining earlier this week about why it is so hard for me
to learn. I was mad because nursing school was already hard. I was angry
because now I am struggling to learn Spanish... And why is he doing this when I
am giving everything to be here and I WANT TO BE HERE, so why Heavenly Father
why? I have learned quickly and I know I will learn more in the field. But he
is preparing me for later. Life does not get easier, and we will always have
trials. But the good thing is that I have learned that through these we can
rely on our Savior. It is the only way to make it through. He is the rock.
Heavenly Father will constantly be pruning us because he knows we can take it.
But only if we rely on him.
I can’t believe my
time is coming to an end here. So much change is going to happen in the next
week... Crazy I have been here for 6 weeks! But here we go!!! Cuzcotopia here I
come!!!! I love and pray for you all. I hope you all know I love this gospel.
Keep going... Keep trucking. It is all worth it in the end.
Yo se que en El Libro
de Mormon y cuando leemos en este sentimos amor de Dios. Yo se que el
Evengelio es verdad y las familias pueden juntos para siempre. Yo se que mi
mision es perfecto para mi. Creo en Jesucristo y su vida y su expiacion. Yo se
que La Iglesia de Jesucristo de los santos de los ultimos dias is verdad.
Short and simple but
it goes a long way. I hope I can get pics in there next time. I love you all!
Hermana Frame